Anyone can be provocative. Not everyone can be sensual.

Seeking deeper connections…

It’s been a privilege to travel the world and live in exotic locations. Every destination is full of overwhelming indulgences promising immediate pleasure. But the rush they offer is short-lived.

As an affectionate woman who feels deeply, I always long for a truer connection to my surroundings. I desire what’s beyond the surface pleasures. This want has taken me on a journey of intimate exploration. One which fulfills my preferences and passions, and has sculpted my view of sensuality.

Long-term partners luxuriate in these connections. As do lovers with the freedom to escape reality long enough to savor each other’s company to unleash the sensual and passionate bond that’s unique to them.

As someone who doesn’t believe in monogamy, I know it’s entirely possible to embrace your sensual side and still respect someone’s desire to remain free from complex emotions.

Answers to the questions you want to ask

How do I know if I’m the right client for you? 

You’re a thoughtful, kind, empathetic, generous, gracious gentleman. You’re likely in your forties or older. Work-wise, you have a profession that you love and which excites you, even though it consumes much of your time and energy. When you do break away from the daily grind, you enjoy relaxing in comfort: beautiful settings, fine wine, incredible food, inspiring destinations, electrifying conversation… And possibly more sensual indulgences. 

What can I expect during our time together? 

Turing our rendezvous into a reality requires some planning, but once we’re together the natural flow of our date will take over. And you can’t plan for that. Our time could be spent in deep conversation, or falling over each other in hysterics. It may include deep, sensual kissing or a more lust-filled tryst. However it works out, you can expect us to part ways feeling satisfied and happy that our time together has created memories we’ll both enjoy until we next meet. Make it happen. 

How do I request a date? 

First, thank you for wanting to take the next step. The best way to request a date is to fill in my secure introduction form.

How soon can we meet? 

I appreciate that a space may suddenly appear in your diary that means you have the time to come and meet me. In these situations I try to be as accommodating as possible. But the reality is that I’m rarely able to fulfill last-minute invitations. Forty-eight hours or more is preferable. For FMTY or longer dates seven days or more notice preferred. In any case, the only way to find out is to send an invitation. 

I’m nervous about sharing my personal information. Why do you need it?

If this is our first ever interaction, I appreciate you may be apprehensive. You’re wondering, ‘Why does she need all of this information? Who will see it? How is it used?’ I completely understand your worry. We both have lives outside of the friendship we’re looking to build. Therefore, we both value privacy and discretion. 

I hope you also agree that my safety is important. Providing a few personal details gives me the confidence to confirm our time together, because I can see that you are who you say you are. 

You can find out more about the details I request at this stage of our friendship and why on my contact page.

Can you plan our date? 

When you send your invitation make sure you include a few details about the type of leisure activities you enjoy. I’d love to recommend places we can visit and things we can do together. NYC is a big place. There are always new or unusual attractions we can explore.

Can we meet at your place? 

For your ease, comfort, and discretion I prefer that our rendezvous is at your hotel or private residence. Alternatively, I can arrange an elegant and comfortable hotel room for us in Midtown East or West. If this is needed:

• a minimum of 48 hours’ notice must be given
• you should complete my introduction form in full and have passed screening
• I must receive $250 upfront of the total investment (sent via CashApp or Venmo) to secure our room.
  
  

Do you travel or tour? 

Tour, not often. Travel, yes. Receiving an invitation to join you on a trip—whether it’s business or pleasure—would be wonderful. For more details on FMTY dates, please see my dates and travel page.   

Discretion is important to me, especially if we’re out in public. How do you ensure our privacy? 

For tête-à-têts shorter than 3 hours, we don’t have to venture out. For longer dates that do need time out of the room, then there’s the New York you know and the New York that I know. Having lived here for well over a decade, I’m familiar with the city’s off-the-beaten track restaurants, hotels, and cultural sites. I can show you parts of NYC that you will never have seen before. These will be our romantic hiding places. If being outside together is not possible, and additional fee (depending on the duration of the date) will be applied.

What makes you happy during a date?

Reaching that moment of true relaxation, where we’re wrapped up in each other’s stories and shared laughter. Oh, and fine-dining and trips together. Can’t forget those. I favor longer, more relaxing, and more memorable experiences. These deep connections develop organically over romantic dinners, overnight stays, travel invitations, and other prolonged getaways. My about page and date inspirations on my social media accounts will give you even more insight.

Can I buy you a gift?  

It’s very kind and thoughtful of you to want to surprise me with a gift. You might find the perfect present idea on my Wish List and choose something that resonates with you. If NYC shopping is likely to make up part of our time together, then perhaps we can pick out something together? 

Do you enjoy the companion lifestyle? 

There are experiences that come with being a companion that no other job or industry can match. I have the pleasure of meeting men and women from all over New York, across states, and sometimes from around the world. These are interesting, engaging, likeminded people who I may not have met otherwise. I’m also lucky that this lifestyle helps me realize my ambitions when it comes to higher-education, my career outside companionship, and indulging my passion creative projects. So yes, I enjoy it and the freedom that comes with working independently.